Mark Macrides is our Director of Community Engagement, but really a title cannot possibly encapsulate all that he does for NCCS. If his job description were truly representative of all he touches here, it would be several pages long. Mark is quite simply one of the most unique and amazing people I have ever had the good fortune to work with. He is incredibly dedicated to this school and loves it deeply.
He has literally touched thousands of lives in his years here and has had a hand in nearly every detail of every part of the school, large and small. For example, tonight’s centerpieces? Mark went to the woods and found the sticks and helped make the leaves. Tonight’s food? Mark had a say in the menu. The alignment of tables around the room in relation to the speakers? The table settings? The lighting changes? You guessed it—Mark was involved in it all.
Quite frankly, I have found it near impossible to capture the impact Mark has had on the institution and the people here adequately. So, we asked some of those who know Mark best to share stories from their work with him, thoughts on the legacy he will leave, and characteristics that set him apart. I have been overwhelmed by the response. I am so grateful to have been able to read these reflections, as they collectively paint a more complete picture of some of the extraordinary impact Mark Macrides has had on New Canaan Country School. So, in the words of his colleagues, present and past, a very small fraction of what was shared with me:
"Mark was one of the first people at school (along with the Flik and Facilities crews) on the morning of Frogtown Fair, breaking down from Blue and White Night the night before and setting up for the festivities to come. He’s everywhere (and nowhere—I bet no one even saw him at Frogtown Fair) all at once and constantly juggling multiple things. He was also the last to leave after helping the Facilities team put everything away."
"Mark is a true culture carrier. He remembers the stories behind why everything was done the way it was. He knows why certain trees were planted—to shade the classrooms of specific retired teachers—and why the Stevens Building’s low brick wall is shaped in a semi-circle (to protect an unmarked time capsule buried deep below). He can tell you everything about the stone walls that surround our campus and the arrowheads found underneath our soil. He can tell you about the ice harvested from behind the Winter Club and stored in our ice house and about the windmill that used to stand by the Thacher building. A campus tour with Mark is like attending an oral history lesson, full of whimsical details and fascinating asides."
"Mark’s work ethic is unparalleled. Many years ago, a former Head 'banned' him from campus for a week in a well-intentioned but misguided effort to force him to take a vacation. I remember working late one evening and seeing him sneak back under the cover of darkness to do 'just one quick thing.' It didn’t surprise me in the least. The countless hours he has dedicated to the school are simply unmatched. Whenever a former student, parent, faculty, or staff member returns to campus, everyone looks for Mark. He’s a wonderful host and a living link to the past, always making returning guests feel honored and welcome."
"Although he technically has more designated workspaces than anyone else on campus, you’re unlikely to find him in any of them. Mark is always on the move, carrying his trusty backpack and setting up shop wherever inspiration strikes—whether it's in an empty conference room, at a table in the Cafeteria, or on a sofa in one of the school’s many lobbies. Just when you think you've figured out his latest spot, he'll have found a new one."
"I am ALWAYS amazed and in awe of how Mark single-handedly transforms the Grace House Lobby overnight at the start of each school year into a new, fabulous, and informative archival display."
"As an artist, Mark is incredibly creative and often sees things differently. He’s a great strategic partner in that way. He is often able to propose new approaches to solving a problem."
"He has given so much of himself to this school and our community, but I think his most significant legacy will be through the children he has taught. He has shown them that they are capable of creating beauty in this world. From the early grade of kindergarten, he teaches these children that they can take discarded objects—trash as the rest of us see it—and they have the power to see it differently and make it into art. I think that’s pretty powerful."
"At the beginning of the Covid pivot to online teaching I needed to deal with a serious family crisis. Mark stepped in, without hesitation, and made sure that I was able to direct all of my attention to what I needed to take care of at the time. He reassured me when I was concerned and made the transition appear seamless, although I know it took a tremendous amount of extra work at an already stressful time. I am forever grateful to him for that."
Finally, two more:
"I've always given 100% to my job, but after working with Mark, I want to give 200%."
"Mark has been a beacon of wisdom, kindness, inspiration, and historical guidance, touching the lives of countless students, families, and colleagues. His influence extends far beyond the classroom, shaping the very fabric of what makes Country School a special place."
So, congratulations on 40 amazing years, Mark. It is an honor and a pleasure to work alongside you. Thank you for being the consummate partner, friend, confidante, and go-to person. And don’t worry, I promise I will not ban you from campus.